Relationship Memory
About Me
About Me is your own Spark profile: the memory Spark uses to understand you while helping with everyone else.
What About Me is for
About Me is the profile Spark uses to understand you in relationship context. It helps Spark interpret shorthand, draft in a way that sounds more like you, and understand the people and places that show up across your network.
It is separate from account administration. Billing, login, and security settings live elsewhere. About Me is about the human context Spark needs when helping you stay in touch.
- Use About Me for your work context, personal context, links, places, and recurring groups.
- Use account settings for authentication, subscription, and app preferences.
- Use the About Me Spark button when you want to teach Spark something about your world.
What belongs here
Good About Me context gives Spark stable background it can reuse. Your role, company, clients, communities, family structure, city, school, and recurring commitments can all help Spark understand what you mean later.
You can also add important dates, personal links, relationships, and notes. The best notes are specific enough that they change a future draft or suggestion.
- Good: "I run a boutique real estate team in Boise and most clients come from referrals."
- Good: "I prefer warm, concise texts. Avoid exclamation-heavy copy."
- Less useful: "Be better at networking."
Your voice
Spark learns from reviewed messages you choose to send through the app. It should become more familiar with your tone over time, but you remain the editor.
Voice context is not a license for Spark to send messages automatically. It helps drafts start closer to what you would actually write, especially for contacts where the relationship has a particular tone.
- Edit drafts before sending; those edits are useful signal.
- Reject drafts that feel off instead of sending them anyway.
- Tell Spark if a channel or tone preference is stable enough to remember.
How About Me affects suggestions
About Me can help Spark understand why a contact matters, what shared context exists, and which hooks are appropriate. For example, your role can change whether a client milestone, referral, or local event is relevant.
Spark should not present guesses as facts. When it needs more context, it can ask a quick question instead of inventing a reason to reach out.
- Add context about cohorts, clients, neighborhoods, teams, or communities you reference often.
- Use notes to explain acronyms or shorthand Spark would not know.
- Answer context requests when they would unlock better suggestions.